Invest,
Invite, and Include
by Dan Reiland
The Pastor's Coach The name Andy Stanley is quickly becoming a
household name when it comes to leaders of strong and fast-growing churches
today. I am privileged to have served on the Elder Board alongside Andy at North
Point Church in Alpharetta, GA and can say that I learned much under his
leadership.
One of the things that Andy greatly reinforced is the idea that less is more.
This is a topic that could easily constitute an entire article on its own, but
for now I want to connect this idea to evangelism.
Andy has taught his church to connect with and implement the simple and very
effective evangelism strategy of "Invest and Invite." I remember well, as I
listened to Andy’s teaching for several years while Patti and I attended North
Point, hearing over and over again that simple phrase "Invest and Invite." It
was clear, it made sense and I found myself doing it! There was no 79-week class
on apologetics to attend, no "7 easy steps" to learn, just invest and invite.
That’s it. Brilliant.
You may be wondering, "If this is so brilliant, then why did you change it to
'Invest, Invite & Include?'" Hey, I never said I was brilliant! The cool thing
is that the concept is so powerful and transferable that it gives room for
personalization. So that’s what we have done at Crossroads. (By the way, Andy,
if you are reading this, thanks again for all you’ve taught me!)
This article picks up where
How Full Is Your Net left off--with a practical plan for harnessing
God’s power. It was my goal to make it clear that it’s God’s power, not our
programs, that makes the difference. However, He does want us to engage. God
wants us to participate. The following three-part process offers a simple plan
for you to cast vision and train your congregation to live out the Great
Commission in a natural way.
Invest
Investing in people begins with a heart for people. You "gotta" care or the
whole concept will collapse. When I am wrapped up in my own stuff, the last
thing I focus on are the people who are far from God. In those moments, truth
be told, it’s all about me. Thankfully, God enables me not to live there, but
I confess I do go into that mode from time to time. When I’m engaged with the
heart and mind of God, it’s natural and almost easy to focus on others and
connect with them in such a way that they know I care. This is the first step
of investment. Let them connect with a tangible expression of God’s love
through you.
Investing in others needs to be very natural. I’m not condemning the value
of door-to-door canvassing and witnessing; I’ve done my share of that. But I
will admit that it doesn’t seem to be the most effective method in this season
of North American evangelism. What seems to work is simply building
relationships with people who naturally fall within your circle. Neighbors,
coworkers, friends from the gym, or fellow parents on the soccer field--these
are people who are in your immediate sphere of influence and each one of them
presents a different opportunity for you to invest in them.
What exactly are you investing? I shared this with a pastor friend who has
deeply traditional roots and he asked that question. "Invest what?" I
answered, "Invest yourself." Give your time, love, energy, compassion and
resources. He pressed further, "What do you mean?" My response was, "Just be
their friend." For some reason, that clicked for him. So let me encourage
you--just be a friend. But know that this friendship will not happen by
accident. You must intentionally develop relationships with people who are
disenfranchised with the church. We all know that the longer we are
Christians, the fewer non-Christian friends we have. I believe that a primary
mark of Christian maturity is whether or not you are investing in people who
are not following Christ. How are you doing? Who are you investing in?
Invite
There will come a time when it’s right to invite them to your church. Don’t
be discouraged if they say no. And don’t take it personally if you they say
yes and don’t show. Most importantly, don’t dump them as friends if they won’t
come to church as soon as you would like. You may need to be very patient. It
may take months. You may need to ask a number of times. You will need to pray
with passion that God softens them and that they will eventually accept your
invitation.
I trust that your church is a strong faith-cultivating environment and that
the Word is preached every Sunday. It isn’t necessary to give an invitation
every Sunday, but some frequency of invitation is needed so that those who
have been invested in can respond to the truth of the gospel. Again, it may
take many more months, even years, so be patient.
You certainly may make a one-on-one personal invitation for your friend(s)
to receive Christ. Different people will come to Christ in different ways.
Some will respond to a public invitation in a worship service, others may
commit to Christ in a small group or a Sunday School class, others still may
say yes to the claims of Christ in a one-on-one setting. Keep the options
alive and invite! By the way, who is it that you have recently invited to your
church?
Include
Follow-up is critical. Make sure your church has simple and obvious
passageways for people to connect to the body of believers. There are many
different and creative ways to connect pre-Christians into your church. Your
friendship and the friendship of others helps people connect, but a new
believers class or discipleship process introduces them to the Word much more
deeply.
I am encouraged when I visit churches that have a sharp, well-prepared,
well-led new believers course. At Crossroads, Pastor Miles Welch and his team
lead such a course. It’s relationally-driven, Q & A based, and built around
scriptural lessons in the basics of one’s faith. It’s the nursery of our
Church. Can you imagine having a new baby in your family and no nursery?
Unthinkable. And yet so many churches have nothing of substance or nothing at
all to offer new Christians. How is your church doing? Is your process for new
believers strong? Is it life-changing? Are new believers attracted to it? Once
they have attended, do they stay?
Church leader, Invest, Invite & Include works. You don’t need anything more
complicated than this. You may wish to add a training course of some kind such
as Contagious Christianity (Willow Creek), but remember, the focus is not
the classroom. What counts is what you do with what you learned. So take it to
the streets! When it comes to vision-casting and practical direction from the
pulpit, Invest Invite & Include gets it done. It serves as a great vehicle to
unleash God’s power and capture a rich harvest!
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Dan Reiland is executive pastor at
Crossroads Community Church,
Lawrenceville, Georgia. Read other articles
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